Essentially, people live together, are not aware of the cause of friendships, but they are interests and feelings of satisfaction obtained from these interests.
The fact that when you present all the benefits and values that you can get from one person to you as a whole and all as a whole, it does not mean that there is nothing more that you can get from you. That's what Schopenhauer called the rupture.
After these breaks, people often get more misleading messages than they are. I'm worthless, no one loves me, nothing happens to me, my time is gone, etc.
Misleading brain messages keep you looking for the interest and love that you cannot find in yourself, while at the same time keeping you from your attempts, attempts, and questioning to reach your goals.
This is also because you cannot enjoy the pleasure of something you will achieve by needing effort and confidence; this will cause you to try to get pleasure from others by giving interest, affection and value to them.
This situation, which is mostly experienced in youth, ceases when it comes out of childhood and becomes more intertwined with society. Because human beings are increasing in their interests as their age progresses. In addition, the effort to obtain a place in society pushes us to think about society and other people rather than ourselves because of the pressures of society.
Many people learn to care for themselves, to discover themselves in a difficult way, that is, as a result of others throwing him over and over, realizing that his years have elapsed as he struggles with others.
