I'm glad to hear things are going great with you guys. It is good to see something positive out there because honestly it is very rare.
One thing I have realized over time is that being first or nearly first with women is a huge thing because of the pair bonding and the pot committed initial investment. Just like Bitcoin having a first movers advantage. Once someone gets far extracted from high school and the first years of college it becomes harder and harder to form that kind of bond.
It has happened several times here where married women and myself catch eyes and I see the way she wants me and then their husband is around and he has physically fallen way off to a point where I'm super perplexed but it comes with being first.
It's a paradox because in this time I have been able to keep building myself up but in doing so I'm in a race against time. Time is our most valuable asset but suddenly I lose traction with the majority of small town hotties that are 22 years old but a lot of those girls these days are never in any relationship and play it out until they actually fall way off from their peak. For the guys I say they don't want to really try to play it out past 27 to be fully honest in the United States. 90% or more of dudes should be looking to exit to other countries as well.
Sounds like you are Jester Maxxxed with the humor component and I employ this aspect of game as well. My friend that is Mr Bumble is extremely Jester Maxxxed as well and does all these impressions for the women and it hilarious when he does these. Here is a picture of him by my car in California. Imagine this guy who is jacked 6'2" able to do spot on Joker impressions, striking mother fuckers out and has over 16,000 matches on Bumble still having to deal with date down situations and losing traction with what would make sense.

At the end of the day invest in the cat food and dog food companies because really nothing is going to satisfy the majority of these women.