It is a tough pill to swallow and I have thought a lot about if a man and a woman can have a pretty equal partnership that ends up being a healthy relationship and I want to say you can but oftentimes it is sort of a utopian concept partially because for instance if two attractive people who are attracted to each other who have common interests and money is not an object for either one of them because they are independently wealthy from some other means it could seemingly work.

Like if they just spend their time enjoying life and traveling and had kids ....etc and they didn't have the stresses of having to work or be financially stressed. Despite all that you can assume there would be some differences of opinion....etc and their perception could still be warped and they would "want more" when they seemingly have it all.

The cold reality is that most people are in this continual hamster wheel chasing the next dollar to survive and they are struggling to make it.

I feel our consumer impulses are a big reason for relationships often not working out more and more. Financial stress making the worst come out in people.

I really do think that 5% of men are starting to dominate the majority of attractive women and there is a huge segment of the population not getting any sexual gratification or if they do hook up with a woman it is an instant regret situation that is 10 times less gratifying than looking at porn.

I know a lot of guys cite bible verses and equate it to todays life but in my opinion a lot of the stuff was Anecdotal and very open ended so it could be interpreted in many different ways so people can point to it and say see......this is what is going wrong.

I honestly crack myself up with the red pill content and seeing other people talking about it. There are certainly a lot of patterns I have seen with women that are red flag after red flag.

The time alignment almost have to be perfect for people to come together and work towards a common goal together and then they both have to maintain a certain level of looks to keep the flame burning.....etc. It is tough for it to really line up.

For me I have realized that a woman has to have the right hip to waist ratio, be fit, hot, cool....etc It is tough to find the full combination for sure and then when you are both testing each other it can be a strange dance.

I have realized women are very flighty. Any woman who is an 8, 9, or 10 is desired by every man essentially. If a guy doesn't think a woman I rate as an 8 is attractive there is a very high possibility he is gay because I'm really concervative on the rankings to a point where there have really only been two woman that I have said "They are pretty much the closest thing to a 10 you can really get" but in reality I was still hesitant to give them a full 10.