You might ask, What is a BETA Orbiter? Well this is essentially a guy who is permanently friend zoned with a hot woman.
He hangs around hoping that one day she will realize he is a great guy and in a moment of weakness he will end up with her and they will be together and live happily ever after.
For starters you might have watched too many Disney movies growing up and also you need to realize we live in a really fucked up dating world that is far different than it might have been 100 years ago. Some principles have likely stayed the same but these days you Unfortunately have to play way more games.
The BETA Orbiter virtually has no chance to get with the girl he is after.
He would be better off finding a hotter girl to hang out with which would make the first girl more jealous and suddenly realized he is desired by beautiful women.
We are attracted to people who are desired by others.
This principle plays true with consumer items as well and good marketing will position a product to be almost hard to obtain through restricted quantity or by high price or a combination of those two attributes. People want what they can't have.
I Honestly Hate To Admit What You Must Do To Get With Beautiful Women These Days
You can't even tell a woman you like her or that she is beautiful these days because you will lose ground with her. She will think, "Maybe I'm hotter than him?"
At that moment she is weighing out her options. These days a somewhat attractive woman who is on social media is getting hit up from every angle. Depending on where they live they start thinking they are hotter than they actually are. Indiana is a perfect example of women who think they are hot here but if they go to Florida, Arizona, or California you have to put them on suicide watch because no one even notices them.
Unfortunately you have to always act like these women might have screwed themselves out of an opportunity if they balk at hanging out.
A perfect example was a woman in Indiana who suddenly said "Maybe we can get drinks if I'm not too tired."
What did I respond with?
"I don't survive on maybes"
Many many months later she still watches all my stories on Instagram. Will we ever hang out? Probably not to be honest because the only way to help society is to let her realize her life sucks compared to mine and then maybe the next guy who tries to talk to her will get to see if she learned anything about making excuses.
Always remember to use a NEXT mentality.
We are living in a world of broke stressed out dog moms. The best thing for them would be to stop making excuses and thinking that they deserve to be with a billionaire space cowboy philanthropist who happens to have 8 pack abs and is in the process of curing cancer.
You aren't even good enough for a chick who is a 5.5 out of 10 unless you stop following them around like a little puppy dog.
You are going to have to utilize a shot gun approach and out of 20 girls you put initial groundwork in with you might make any sort of progress with 3 of them.
It's a numbers game and these days women don't really need us. They can live on their own and watch the Bachelorette and use advanced dildos and tell most guys they have to prepare for a meeting at work that is 5 days away. You have to do something that will make them want you.
WAIT YOU THOUGHT THEY NEED YOU TO HAVE CHILDREN!?!?! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
They can either just be dog moms or go to a sperm bank.
Be a fucking boss and act somewhat wreckless and dismissive of them and put work in on a lot of girls. Putting other women in your stories can actually help as well because then they will realize you are highly desired by attractive women.
You likely learned more in this post than you did in college so upvote this shit.