Glad to see you are back. I can't imagine everything you must be going through to have kept you away for a while. I hope it all works out. Funny story, I was hoping to give you some kind of advice, so I did a Google search for "do hermits usually find a home" and one of the first results Google gave me is an article from 2010 with the headline "Social Networking helps hermit crabs find homes". Maybe coming back to Hive is just what you need!