There are a lot of great points in this point. Single parenthood is a big obstacle, especially when one parent is a sole provider 80% (or more) of the time. It is many occupations wrapped into one: chef, maid, daycare, therapist, on top of the job you DO have!

It is an exhausting, often thankless job... But as you said, the most important result is that the children become well-adjusted, grounded people. I believe what you said about self-sufficient is true, and important as well. We want our children to make it through this life 🙏

Thank you for sharing, have a great day!