Dialogue is the only language that is indispensable in the daily dealings between the individual.
You may need the language of dialogue to convince your friend of something or your manager to work with the idea in your mind or even may need women to dialogue language to get along with her husband in some things.
How do you become a good interlocutor? Can I convince others what I want?
1 - the first step - the beginning of the dialogue:
You have to look for common starting points or common points to start talking about them and do not discuss topics that branch out from other topics. All of the issues should be solved. Always try to reach dialogue with each other, meaning that whenever you reach an agreement on an issue, you immediately start talking about a new issue related to this agreement. the first .
Step 2 - Stay away from anger:
Anger destroys what you build in hours in one moment. If you are angry, you will be angry with your interlocutor and you will never reach a common point or a solution that will resolve the topic of discussion. Of course, you will not be able to reach your idea or convince him in your opinion, and the dialogue column that grew up between you will be located at the beginning. The party in front of you was talking in a way that did not please you.
Step 3 - Do not be fanatic:
Do not ever get to your idea and stick to the death limit, you should always take the principle: My opinion is right, the error is wrong, and the opinion of others is wrong. It is possible that the party you are talking to likes to always feel that you are listening to it and can be satisfied with its thought if it is true.
Step 4 - Equity and recognition of error:
One of the most important methods of good dialogue is that when you realize that you were wrong or wrong you should recognize this right away. Returning to the right is a virtue and a sign of ignorance that you insist on what you think is wrong and when you realize that you were wrong and apologize to those in front of you, With a warm welcome and with every ear
Step 5 - Avoid the useless argument:
Always the argument does not bear fruit and does not benefit and waste time without need, and signs of controversy are:
A - raising the voice: It is not the power of argument exaggeration in raising the voice in the debate and dialogue, but
All that was human was a deeper gift, a better argument and a more modern context
(B) Repeating the same arguments with an ambiguity.
C - rejection of axioms: the rejection of the universally recognized among people in religion or in life.
Step 6 - Listening:
As you speak and express your views, you should leave enough room for others to talk. During their conversation you must listen carefully to the other person's words, understand them correctly, not interrupt the speaker, or object to him while speaking. This is important if you are actually talking.
Step Seven - Do not assume bad faith:
Finally, this is a very important point for dialogue so long as there is suspicion among the interlocutors as long as there is doubt, and therefore will not benefit any dialogue or discussion. You must always avoid thinking, and understand the real intention always to speak and not to interpretation to other meanings and other perceptions.
If you follow these steps correctly and correctly you will have a queen of dialogue and understanding with others, without the debate is sharp and without having the fear to enter into dialogues and discussions with others
I hope that my explanation has benefited you
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