Can life be fair to some people and unfair to another set of people? Have you ever felt that life is unfair to you?.
We often feel that life is unfair when we compare ourselves to other's in the absence of an interpersonal transaction.
A child, who has a mother but striving to crawl; another child of the same age in an orphanage home already running.
Eligible single being depressed and pressing to get married; newly married lost her life in child birth and the husband already a widower within one year of marriage.
Sad !
Single mother struggling with her twins and lamenting how hard life is.
A Couple, married for 10 years with a fleet of cars and luxuries, but no child.
Another lamenting how tired he is of walking, he wants a car; another just had an accident with his car, fighting to walk again, he cries:
"Take away all that I have but give me my feet."
Someone from a poor family, very intelligent with no help, struggling to pay his own school fees in a local school; while another has all the financial resources it takes to go to the best school in the world but alas . . . Nothing seems to enter his brain.
Someone wants to commit suicide because he was diagnosed of HIV; whereas, a Leukaemia patient somewhere is crying "If only it was HIV."
A beautiful girl crying "Why should I be in this village while my mates are making it big in the City ?" Another big babe in the city has just been raped and killed for rituals.
There's a poor man somewhere with healthy children and there's one rich man somewhere with abnormal children who isn't happy because the whole world thinks he used them for money rituals.
The list goes on and on.
This is to tell you that nobody has it all and no life is a perfect definition of perfection.
**But what is fair? **
Fair means eqaul.
Eqaul means no difference.
No difference means nothing to compare.
Nothing to compare means nothing exists.
Fair means nothing should exist.
Because nothing is fair.
**Can fair ever exist? **
I think the only way for fair to exist is for nothing to exist.
The only way for everything to be fair is for everything to be the same.
The only way for everything to be the same is for nothing to exist.
Wanting more is unfair to those who have less than you.
To exist requires uniqueness, difference, and individuality. Fairness requires sameness so fairness requires nonexistence.
Whatever challenges you have today, someone, somewhere has a bigger one.
Life can,sometimes, be unfair. While striving to be better, Be grateful for every new day.Your present position is the prayer point of many others
