Greetings @fixyetbroken ,

Thank you for dropping by. ^__

Let's look at the Principle....Do you want to understand or do you want to be understood?

To want to understand is to wish to have knowledge, facts outside of yourself, your opinions...to wish to be understood is a more self-centred sort of thing,

Take for example 'The heat'....high temperatures.....someone complains and wants everyone to understand how miserable they are....others may understand that these things are cyclical and focus on that rather than how the circumstances affect them personally.....make sense?

Cheers, Bleujay