LOH CONTEST #171//GROWING YOURSELF MY ADVICE TO YOUNG WOMEN

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I know it's hard to be a woman,
A lady is a woman, a companion, a mother, a care giver and a best friend to her family....
I'm here to give out the advice i would have given to my younger self and do give myself....

Proverbs 31 vs 26- 30

She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction her tongue, she watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. many women do noble things , but you surpass them all.
Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the lord is praised....

As a woman you have the power to turn things in your favor, use your voice, speak with wisdom.

When someone says no to you smile and ask" why"

Do not respond to situations with anger, respond with wisdom in your tongue

Do not let beauty take over you, do not let pride rule over you, be humble for God resist the proud and give Grace to the humble

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Life is never a bed of roses, you will experience so many failures, breakdown, people will say no to you, you will experience rejections; might be from your close friends, parents, siblings, colleague etc
A vast number of people might say no to you, you might be misinterpreted 😌 yes is normal
Do not be force to react in the midst of all this that life might or will bring to you , you have to sit down embrace them with smiles.....
Deal with them one after the other
Ability to handle situations and how you react to negativity is what will surely make it an history
Life has no duplicate, don't think of suicide when you are going through though time.

You have to be focus, determine,goal oriented, glamous , strong and resolute young lady

There's a popular saying that though time don't last but though people do last
Strong people overcome..

Be a strong woman, don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself nor let people mistreat you
Do not respond to people who dictate to you or try to bring you down.

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BE CAREER ORIENTED

My advice to young ladies, when choosing your career, you have to discover and realize yourself
you have to choose it right
Do what you like doing
Do what is your calling
Do not do what is easy, do what is right
What fuels your passion?
You can combine your passion with a profession
Discover what you are really good at.
Do not let the society pressure you
Don't follow your friend
Sometimes your parents might want to force you to do what you are not good at, because they want you to be a very great person 😂 I won't say the hate you, trust me ☺️they want the best for you, but priortize who you really are first....
Have a counselor who counsel's you and also give you carreer orientation
Go for seminars, ask people that are ahead of you questions.

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BE AN HUMANITARIAN

You have more to offer to the world more a beautiful face, an hour glass shape, a certificate, Job, luxury home, luxury life style, husband and kids to take care of.etc. Realize that you have humanity to leave better than you met.
You have to be fruitful, productive to your society..
When you help others you stand the chance of getting back in return
Set your charitable goals
Engage in communal activities

LEARN HOW TO HANDLE YOUR FINANCES
save money for raining days

You can draft list of your daily expenses, so as to avoid over spending

Invest in profitable activities

RAPE
Aviod dark areas at night

Do not visit places and people you are not comfortable with

Incase of rape do not fail to report to appropriate authorities

Raise an alarm when necessary

Call the police if you can

Thanks for reading, hope you find my advice interesting