people say love is beautiful, they are referring to the way love brings meaning to life by giving joy, stability and a sense of belonging.
The beauty of love is beyond the physical attraction or appearance It is about how love makes us feel alive and valued.
If we say love is beautiful and at the same time blind how do we know it's beautiful?
What this simply means is that when someone is in love, he or she always overlook the other person's flaws. Another person will do something that will make you feel offended and unhappy but if the person you love does that same thing, you will suddenly discover that you are not offended by the same action that someone else did and you were offended. That is the power and the beauty of love.
Love clouds our judgment, it makes our heart soft and sometimes makes us act without reasoning.
Love prevents us from focusing on the imperfections of the person we love. Love feels beautiful because we experience joy, we become vulnerable to the one we love and we enjoy intimacy with the person we are in love with.
As someone who has been and is still in love with my spouse, I see love as a strong force that brings two individuals from different backgrounds, with different mindset, different world view, different understanding and different perspective to live together.
I will like every one to know that there is no perfect love any anywhere. What I mean by this, is that sometimes people always feel that when they are in love, the person they love will not or should not do anything that will hurt or offend them. But sometimes, it is the people we love that offends us the most.
It's our ability to look away from the person's flaws and mistakes that makes love grow stronger.
If you say you love someone but cannot forgive the person then you don't love the person.
Another thing I will like us to know about love is that love is that love comes with a lot of sacrifice. You cannot be in love and not make sacrifices for the one you love. When you love someone, love you will care for the person. The person's problem becomes your problem and the person's need becomes your needed. In some cases you will have to place the person' s need above your own need.
For those who believe in God and the sacrificial death of Jesus Christ on the cross; the Bible in the book of John chapter 3 verse 16 Makes us to understand that it is love that made God give his only begotten son Jesus Christ to suffer and die on the cross for the sins of the world.
Love brought Jesus to the cross to suffer and die for a sin he did not commit. Leaving us an example to follow.
The reason so many relationships are not working is because people are being selfish and not willing to make little sacrifices for each other. It is those little sacrifices that make love strife and grow stronger.
Love is beautiful a beautiful thing and it blind because when we love we over look flaws and imperfections on the person we love.
