@holoz0r great post mate . Sorry to hear about your father’s passing . He was still very young at the time and it’s pissing off learning about how some people were closer to him than you . My father too is a generation passed who wouldn’t even know what class in school I was in. I think the entire generation whether it is Greek or Irish were all kind of odd in a way. My father was the youngest of 7 and he told me that the second youngest didn’t talk to him until he was 24. He asked him to be his best man and they are great ever since . My father asked him why he never spoke to him when they were children and Paddy just said he didn’t like not being the youngest anymore . Pack of weirdos . Like you I have my problems with the father . The only way we seemed to connect was through football which is why I am fascinated by football. My date was much more of a social butterfly than me and he can read a person very well. Surprisingly well actually but I too didn’t think I was first on his list of priorities . It’s kinda hard to swallow . Great to share . I think me and you are cut from the same cloth in a way and that’s why this fucking place put us together .