Haha, yeah, will do. Same goes for you.

I think the tone of voice is a key indicator as to if the person if genuinely concerned or being a busy-body and meddler.

I remember my dad's gf once lecturing me about how I need to sort myself out financially because I'm dependent on my husband and "what if it doesn't work out." I hate it when people think like that. I get that some people want to be prepared, but saying "I love him and we'Ve made vows to each other" isn't good enough for them. While for others, saying the same response, tells them everything they need to know about our values and where we stand and they respect that. Plus I get triggered immensely with what ifs. My abuser did what ifs of all sorts. So these days I'm more assertive and tend to go "Don't What-If me!" lol Like, let's play a different game where you keep quiet! OH! :o Of course I would NEVER say that like that. Maybe I'm not drunk enough to dare.