The rate at which men cheat these days is overwhelming. The question Why is still an unsolved puzzle, a mystery that I intend to unravel. I came across a book titled "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man" written by Steve Harvey and in this book he pointed out five(5) different reasons why Men cheat.
Men cheat because
i) they can
ii) they think they can get away with it
iii) he hasn't become who he wants and needs to be or found who he truly wants
iv) what's happening at home isn't "happening" like it used to
v) there's always a woman out there willing to cheat with him
I couldn't agree less, i think the main reason they cheat is because
i) what's happening at home isn't "happening" like it used to
ii) there's always a woman out there willing to cheat with him
what's happening at home isn't "happening" like it used to :
ladies most of the time we are the reason why our men cheat on us.
When you are searching for a husband, you try to be perfect, look good, exercise more but after he gets us into his home, we become less concern of our appearance especially when we give birth to his children.
I was in a boutique buying some clothes and two women walked in, one Slim while the other was fat and the salesgirl walked to the fat lady and said " madam long time o..... This one wey you dey fat wetin dey happen " and the woman replied "I have given birth to one child na" and i just smiled as if the other woman knew why I was smiling turned to the fat woman and said madam, I am a mother of three kids but that's not an excuse to be fat and everyone including me was amazed, I wouldn't be surprised if I find out that the fat lady's husband is cheating on her. why??? Because she's not who she use to be anymore. I know you would be thinking did he fall in love with her appearance?? Let me surprise you. your appearance matters a lot, your husband first fell in love with your physical appearance before he fell in love with your inner beauty, so when he sees other skinny young girls outside he just can't resist them just like he couldn't resist you when he first saw you, another important thing his needs, when you don't attend to his needs whether it involves his sex life or his other needs, you need to try and give him sex when he wants and how he wants it. Girl your sex life should be active and one important thing always give him attention, your husband should come first before your children, his needs should be met first before any other thing. you are married to him and not the children.
There's always a woman out there willing to cheat with him:
you would all agree with me that this is the main reason men want to cheat, feel they can cheat and eventually cheat on us, ladies we need to buckle up, imagine if there's no girl, no lady out there for them to cheat with, trust me we wouldn't be hearing the word cheat when it comes to any form of relationship. Stop being the reason why a lady is in her home crying or praying to God to curse any lady who looks at her husband twice. I am sure 90% of our ladies have had an encounter with a married man but you just need to say no to them no matter the promises they make to you knowing too well you are saving another woman's marriage. We need to look out for each other, be our sister's keeper. Guys please be contented with what you have instead of cheating on your wife, try to work things out with her.
