Hello. Welcome to my content. First of all, I would like to thank those who prepared this beautiful event. All of the threads are great, but I'll try to stay under "Private or Public Recognition". If I were to explain my reason for dwelling on this question; This weekend I helped my family with the gardening. So the title of the question is very appropriate for me.
When I help people, I usually do it because it comes from my heart. I don't expect to be recognized by people. As the reason for this, as I stated in the sentence above, I help people by coming from my heart and my heart. In a work done from the heart, no benefit or recognition is expected. Of course, these are my thoughts. For example; I have donated blood to the Red Crescent many times, but I have not used any means to be recognized or to introduce myself in any of them. I donated purely for charity, because it came from my heart.
In such cases, I expect special thanks from people. As for the reason, I can say the following; When a person helps someone voluntarily, he does not expect any feedback. However, the person who is helped can thank in return, even verbally. Although this is a small sentence, it will strengthen the bond of love between them. Therefore, when the helper is thanked, he will be pleased with the situation and perhaps continue to help at other times. As an example of this thought; They thanked me for helping my family with the gardening. These words made me happy and I will continue to help them.
Under the title of this question, I would like to mention a little bit about helping my family. I went with my family to the garden where we make a part of our livelihood. There were some jobs in the garden taking care of us. Works such as planting, watering, weeding, etc.
We did business with my mom and dad. My mother planted, my father watered, and I dealt with weeding. As everyone is busy with a job, the things to do are finished in a short time. That day, I once again experienced the happiness of helping my parents. Because I lightened their work.
While I was doing all this, I did not expect any feedback from them. But they did not remain indifferent to my help and thanked me. Therefore, the love between us became stronger. I tried to answer the question from here. I hope it will be a useful article. Thank you for reading 🙂 Note: Since I don't know English, I created my content with the help of translate. I hope you successfully translated what I wanted to say.