Do we feel that we have lost the ascent in life? No one can stretch ones life, but we can make our life better living life by change. We need to talk about that others should like me. Many say 'I am like this only, whether you like it or not.' Why should I change?
People have change of prospective in their life at all times. We all live in society of approval. We believe in what others say. We take there saying seriously and measure ourselves. Many times we feel why should I be liked by others. We are less happy that we have a beautiful car or a house, but we are more happy to see our neighbors getting jealous of our luxuries.
When someone comes home first time we are excited to show them our house. Why do we do that? Because we want approval from them. We want to let them know what we are doing is all right. The way we are living is correct. We are all waiting for others to be recognized us.
We need to learn: How can we be a better human being? How can you love everybody? How can you forgive everybody? How can you get rid of the brageties that you are carring all your life? All this weight we walk with us all our life, 'I will not forgive. I will not let you survive. I will see you. You just wait and watch.' Such acts of making our own life miserable.
Relationship is all about loving each other. Without any condition. Love one another unconditionally. When a child is born, same time a man and woman is born. Whatever we do we can do with lot of love, lot of contentment, lot of care. Why should we cry about it? We should always do it happily because we were capable of doing it.
Parent are the ones who love their children unconditionally. In marital relationship both side things that they have struggled to upbring the family. But if they put their ego aside and make a compromise and appreciate one anothers hardship it will make there life more easier to live together.
Let us not pay attention to the approval of others. We need to approve our ownself. We can mature our relationship. What is my idol may not be your idol. So we should not pressure other to believe what we believe. When we get married we are struggling that we can change our partner. And we waste all our time of togetherness. We lose the special moments due to the willingness of changing other. Is this what we all look for? Let us change once again. Instead of finding false and cracks in others let us change ourselves by loving, caring and respecting one another. Give some space in our relationship so we can work things correctly. Let's forgive and forget and move ahead.
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