We all have a level of inferiority of some kind, and it could be anything. You might feel a little intimidated by your body shape. Or you might think your skin tone is a little dull. Anything like this can happen, see, often we compare ourselves with other people and in such a situation we start feeling very low and in such a situation a lot changes around us and it happens here that we start feeling very low inside ourselves, about which we cannot even tell anyone else because all this is going on inside our mind, due to which sometimes it becomes very difficult to understand it. Some people reveal their fears to everyone but some people keep all these things hidden because they do not want people to know about their fear and take undue advantage of it.
No one is perfect in this world because everyone has some shortcomings or the other. But you can definitely make yourself look perfect because unless someone is close to you, he does not know what kind of person you are and what things you are good at and what things you are bad at and many other things. It often happens that we overshare many times and because of this, it becomes a little dangerous for us. Some people get scared of the fact that they have shared too many things with people and they regret it. This can also be a kind of fair that they might share my messages or the photos that I have shared somewhere else and who knows what other things can happen. Everyone has different fears. Some people are afraid of public speaking. Some people run away with pride. Everyone has different problems.
But see if you want you can overcome any kind of problem and it is not going to happen in a day, it requires a very long process. Everyone wants to become a perfect person but not everyone can do this because not everyone can work on it. If I talk about myself, I used to feel a lot of fear in meeting new people, I still have that fear but now it has reduced a bit because I worked for some time and there I had to deal with a lot of public due to which my fear has reduced a bit but it has still not gone away completely. But I feel that if you want to control your fear of any kind want to overcome it then you should work on it whatever it is. If you are afraid of talking to people, then you should go out in public and chat with random people and just ask them any question, just start chatting. (it can be any thing like asking where is this place or other thing , try it , it feels good )
I am already very active online and try to be involved everywhere but I am not that much of a social person offline, I would call myself that because I mostly spend my time in my room or sometimes go out for a walk, that is my life and apart from that I spend my time in the office only. Since the time I joined the office, I have learnt a lot of new things and a lot of changes have also come in my life. I feel that earlier I used to overthink a lot but now I have stopped it and now I have become that kind of person who does not care about things so much. Sometimes I do feel scared but now I do not worry that much and now when you become a little confident then you can easily talk to people.
A person becomes under confident when he feels that there is this shortcoming in me and if you remove that shortcoming then things become much easier for you. See, as I told you, I categorized my self by eliminating people and meeting new people. In the beginning it takes me a lot of time to mingle with people but once I meet a good person then things become much easier for me and I also get to know what kind of person I am, whether I am good or bad or whether I am a shy type of person or what kind of person I am. Well everyone finds a different comfort zone among their friends it is the same with me when my friends are around me, I laugh and joke a lot.
And now I am trying to bring some changes in myself, like if I talk about my hive, there are many shows going on here in discord, earlier I have tried to avoid that but now I have realized thanks to one off my friend who wakes me up. She forced me to join sometimes and now I am grateful to her for this. Because of that, now I am gradually feeling a little more confident when I talk to people in the main voice even now by going to many channels, but I am still listening to people but I hope that in the coming times I will be able to reach a little bit more by connecting with everyone, just like I talk to someone through the text, but an audio conversation is a different thing. And if you feel more comfortable then you can also do video calls.
So I would just say that you can do whatever you want, you will have to prepare yourself for it and you will have to work towards it. It is not that all the things are impossible, everything is possible. Its all about mindset.
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