Siblings, do we really need them?

It is really good to have siblings right? Who doesn't want When we were children we all use to have a lot of fun together. Without her siblings that seems to be impossible right? I am sure we all do still remember those days when used to have fun and do so many things together sometimes we did it get in trouble for that. Now we laugh if we do remember those moments of our life. The thing is childishness is only good when we are children still you are doing the same then there must be something wrong with you (exceptions are everywhere ). It is good to behave like a mature one if you are one. No one is going to take care of you for your entire life so if you are responsible enough to take your responsibilities then it is good for the others who are around you.

No one is gonna take responsibility for you for your entire life because everyone does have their own things to do have you gone to have they are on plans no one wants to stay with you all the time or no one always because nothing is permanent here. So it is a good thing if you are a responsible one but if you are an irresponsible one then I am sure you do get others around you in trouble a lot.

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Siblings are so close to us mostly not all of course. Some kids love to live alone and some do need people around them always. Some do need them all the time and some don't even care about all these things. When I look over my childhood photos now that time we don't have smartphones, we used to keep them in albums we still do have a lot of when my all siblings are together you can say the entire family sits together. that moment comes in a year or two we all do love to explore that album and try to remember/ memorize those moments of our life. I used to be angry in all my photos not sure why but that is what I see now in mostly all the albums. My parents say I used to do that a lot. But as we grow we do change a lot by nature personality and many other things did add on to us. That makes us what we are.

But sometimes having siblings can be a problem for you not all siblings are the same of course but some of them are troublemakers. They don't even care but miss gone happen Tejas do it without even thinking for a sec what is gonna happen after the action they are going to take my elder brother is one of the trouble makers in my opinion. Now I think can change but I wish that he would have been a better person and he should start taking responsibility but this is not going to happen for sure because he is kind doing this since his childhood days now all of the set and he is going to change is it possible I don't think so. Not saying it is impossible but I kind of heart to believe that if he did manage to do something like that most of us wouldn't believe in him because the thing is he lies a lot.

Every time when we do think that everything seems to be normal then something did happen to us, most of the time he is the reason why the family did get upset by his actions. He took loans and return to repay them in time then the father has to repair them always and he does that very often. Even if my father open the shop for him still he didn't show any improvement scale up his schemes to other customers and try to empty their pockets. When the customers do realize that they are being fooled by him. Then they ask for the money they gave to him.

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Guess what he doesn't have money to repair the back so, in the end, we have to give the money on their behalf of him. Sometimes really get frustrated with him. I know we can't do anything about that but I wish I had some techniques or something that can change in mind and make him up responsible person so he doesn't repeat these types of things again. I don't care about myself because I am not that much old but I do feel bad about my parents they are almost above 50 and they do you have to see this type of thing at their age when they should relax and chill. I did get angry with my brother but in the end, nothing is going to change so why I got angry about his reactions?

We can control our actions but we don't have any control over others' actions who are nearest or part of our family if they do something wrong then the family has to face the consequences of that. I am not sure but I do have he have to pay a lot of money to so many peoples till he doesn't even worry about that still. That makes me feel more angry sometimes. I do type self come and giant one Mantra that you help that is this time shall pass to. Ye Waqt bhi Gujar jaega.

Let's see what will happen in the future I do try my best to repair a loan on my own but sometimes the amount is huge so I do have to include my parents for that because I am not earning that much money so I can pay all the payments to him. Sometimes I did get tired of this all these things and wanted to get away from there and sometimes I think why do we have to wipe his shit all the time. I think by this post I did get a chance to put my frustration out and I do feel a bit better not sure why but a little bit. It is really hard to trust this kind of person which I don't but sometimes I did get in the world due to his innocence or maybe I did get into his cleverness of how he manipulated people. I have to do things for myself too, if this kind of shit going on then how I am supposed to do things that I want if this is going on like this I don't think I can save a single penny for myself.
So confusing right what do you think do you have any suggestions for me feel free to comment don't hesitate.

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