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Things around us are changing very fast, be it technology or any other thing, our relationships are also changing very fast. Earlier, relationships were given a lot of importance but now it seems that relationships have no value and no importance left. Although marriage is considered a holy relationship, according to Hindu customs, not everyone supports it completely. Earlier, marriage in different castes was also not common but now no one cares about these things and people are ready to take their love affair to any extent. Look, falling in love, getting married, and having children is wrong but if you feel love for a person and later leave that person for someone else, then it would probably be a kind of injustice. Earlier people used to consider marriage as a sacred relation and maintained it for their whole life but now things are changing and we see that often people are getting divorced from each other and establishing relationships with other people.

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Everyone has their own life and everyone is free to live it according to their wishes. We cannot put any kind of pressure or pressure on anyone. Nowadays, the meaning of marriage is changing and people are taking it more as a compromise or I should say an agreement than a marriage and even before marriage, we get to hear marriage conditions. If you are not able to fulfil those conditions, then perhaps your marriage may not be successful and you will soon get freedom from that marriage. Now, even before marriage, people from both sides put a lot of conditions on each other. First of all, marriage is a very big function here in India and a lot of money is spent on it. Some people spend their entire savings on marriages. Everyone performs the marriage ceremony according to their status. Some people like to do it with great pomp and show and some people do not like to do it at all and they complete their marriage ceremony with very few people.

See, everyone has their own choice, some people like to show off, some people do not like all this and they like to do all the work quietly. Although nowadays, conditions are also put before marriage, it is a matter of note, sometimes it also becomes necessary because you are giving your daughter to such a house about which you do not have any information. Yes, before getting married, many things are found out but it becomes difficult to find out everything because no matter how close you are to someone, you are not able to know them completely and nowadays the trend of love marriage is becoming very popular, in such a situation, many people do not even want to live with their parents, they like to live alone and want to live with their family. Privacy is also important but it is also very important to have the support of the family because the parents who have raised you since childhood, you should also take care of them and think about them.

Look, it is a good thing to have conditions before marriage, but those conditions should also be justified, it should not be that you are demanding anything and then the other party has to suffer the consequences, many boys demand a lot of cash, car/bike and jewellery from girls in the name of dowry, some people can give such things but many people are not able to do so, due to which they have to face a lot of difficulties in getting married. See, it is said that God makes relationships and some people also say that everything is the law of destiny and everything is written, no matter how much you try, you cannot change your destiny. I do not believe in all these things, but no one can know what is going to happen to you in the future, but still we all keep doing something new in our life and many people get into relationships and many people also enjoy all these things, but if you get into a relationship, then in such a situation you have to compromise on many things, some people compromise and live a successful life, but some people are not able to compromise and adjust, due to which a lot of tragedies come in their love life and their life becomes very imbalanced, due to which not only they but their family members also face problems.

Look, everyone thinks about their good, but do not be so selfish that you cause pain and trouble to the person in front of you. This is also not a good thing. If you are getting married or are in any relationship, then you should make adjustments and listen to the other person as well. It is not that you should give him/her the upper hand. The thinking of both of you should match and you can make a compromise and after understanding each other's point of view, then take a decision. Do not take any decision in anger. Thank you.

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