Option one: Best friend
Tell us about your best friend. How and where you met, how or why you become such good friends and why your friendship endures. Also tell us a story about one your best moments spent with that best friend.
No other option fits my mood and that's why I would go with option one.
I was is primary 3(elementary school) sitting at the last bench in class alone , my class teacher walked in with 2 new students and introduce them to the class as the new students that would be joining us from that day.
I have been sitting alone for awhile not because I am an introvert or a snub but because I was the tallest kid in class then so I was asked to sit at the back, it was quite lonely until they brought the new student and we became friends instantly.
During break we introduced ourselves, my name is Betty i said, they told me their is Vivian and christiana. They do not originally know themselves before then but because they originated from the same state and speak the same language it made them close and feels as if they had known each other for a while.
(This was in 2016 on my birthday)
We became closer than anyone would think, we visited each other almost every day, we shared our food and always had our small fights. Our parents got to know each other through us because we spend most of the holidays with each others.
After elementary school we got admitted into the same high school, the same department and the same class. Everyone knew us to be friends. The only thing that separate us was the facts that we attended different churches, no one has the right to choose the church they would want to go to if our parents isn't going to the same church.
(This was our beach outing)
After several years of being friends, the government came and demolished where we were living this prompted us to relocate into different towns. We couldn't hear from each other for 3 years, we had changed schools, we had no phones so there was no way we could basically contacted each other.
(The day we went for a swim)
One day I ran into the mother of christiana in a big market she had come to get some things and I had accompany my mum to that same place we crossed path and I couldn't be more happier, we asked after each other and we later exchange contact, after 2 weeks of thay encounter I visited them, we were so happy and we talked alot, we had missed each other for 3 years and it seems like it been a decade since we last saw each other.
(Our first time in a club)
Alot of things had changed but we haven't changed our feelings and care for each other, we later found Vivian on Facebook and we became even closer, it wasn't weird at all for the fact that we had changed environment and definitely met other people.
We started going out, to different places like the beach, the club, parties etc
(This was one of our visit to the mall)
This was on my birthday in 2016
We hardly fight because we already understand alot of things about ourselves and we avoid anything that would cause a quarrel between us, we celebrated our birthdays together with other friends, we considerd each other as sisters.
If there is one things that I really appreciate among us is the fact that they don't make me feel left out since I don't understand their language, they do not speak it to make me feel bad and I really love that about them, if they ever speak it they would interpret immediately and make me feel among.
It been over 20 years since we met, and we are still strong together.
In 2020 christiana got married and gave birth the same year, last year 2021 we celebrated her baby's first birthday. marriage couldnt break our friendship even though we taught if anyone of us get married we might not be that close again.
This happen in 2020, when Christy put to birth and I couldn't visit her because I was having a rough time then with work and was very depressed too. I had promised her I would come one of this day and she agreed.
After 2 weeks of the birth of her baby I visited wit some gifts but then they were both mad at me. Honestly I understood why they were mad but I already explained to them why I couldn't come but they wouldn't understand.
They said we all were supposed to be there for the baby christening and I wasn't.
I allowed my emotions to get in and I got mad too and we exchanged a few hurting words and decide we would never be friends again.
I left and we stop talking to each other for a week. After then we realized we had come a long way to just destroy everything just because we are mad at each other.
We set a meeting and we spoke to each other and discuss our differences and we hugged and became best of friends again.
Everytime we spent wtih each other are always our best moments. We always have alot of things to say when we meet.
(This is us in 2021)
Change of phones has made me lost almost all of our amazing pictures together
