Ooooh... I have been there... staying on out of loyalty to friends... when we all knew it wasn't working. I was listening to a podcast today about how unhealthy peace (in human relationships) is much more debilitating than unhealthy conflict... it's weird, but true enough...

Haha... I "treat" myself to fast food when I feel down... and then I proceed to feel sick... I know it is going to happen, but somehow I manage it every time...

Group mentality to avoid making the moral choice... that is a terrible one... it is basically an excuse to not step up and do the right thing..