Sometimes, it's best to just hold on to the good memories and forget the rest. Even with my parents, still alive today and considering your mum would have been 101 today, I guess you're around the same age as my parents, I still have differing opinions with them about religion, culture and all that.

At the end of the day though, I believe our parents want us to be better versions of themselves and in a way, they probably see themselves in us more than we see our parents in ourselves.

Happy Posthumous birthday to your mum