There’s no winners on either side of a divorce. Now it makes more sense why people go into pre-nuptial agreements. I just recently got married last July. No pre-nup agreements whatsoever. Our rule is just that never talk about separation or divorce at all. We wont mention it not even jokingly. Imagine if the divorce law didnt exist. Then no one has to go through it. So similarly that is our mindset, divorce annulment separation does not exist in our vocabulary.