Having to give out you most valuable possession out to someone will almost give you some sleepless night especially when you have feel like you are indebted to that person.
The society is one place that is surrounded by different people with different mindsets and if one is not very careful, it is either you are seen living for the society or the society is using you as a reservoir for its bad condiment of negativity.
I personally think the society shouldn’t determine how we do things. As a result of trying to please the society, it as braided a lot of fake lifestyle. One don’ have to act to be rich just to win the acceptance of the society.
Most people don’t even know who they are anymore because in pursuit of society acceptance brings about loss of identity. It is either you are doing it the society way or you forget about achieving what you want.
Many have in turn embraced what the society has constructed and have taken a hold of them as their way of life. There are so many lies the society as created and this lies has made a way into the heart of many and it has left them feel so entitled to the society. That is why it is very acceptable to leave your marriage because your husband cannot afford to pay for that expensive trip at the moment.
The society has said that if a man loves you, he will do anything for you but it fails to note that on a priority list some things just have to wait just so the most important one are attended to.
If we keep trying to fit into the society’s realities, you will let go of precious diamond as you settle for stones.You can actually set a boundary, know what you settle for and what you should never give your time to.
Funny enough, many of this society victims are low self-esteem people with high expectation. They don’t what to do, they have not understood how valuable it is to not the society dictate how you should love, communicate, dress, and speak and the likes. It is very disheartening that if the society frown at something good, it can never be uphold.
Again I ask, is the society’s reality you reality? Or do you happen to be a victim of what the society as constructed.