The thing I can borrow from others is money. I do borrow steem from friends and pay back. I can also lend to friends I trust and help the ones I don't trust with what I can afford to forfeit in case they don't pay back.
The things I don't borrow and I can never lend to friends are the things I wear. Cloths,cap,shoes and so on. I don't go beyond my boundary in that aspect because I'm always content with what I have.
However, I don't like sharing what I put on with someone else let alone collect from another. Personally it irritates me. Not that others are not neat but the fact that Its not my cloth will makes uncomfortable.
Moreover,In this part of the world I come from there is what we call vodoo. Your wears can be easily used to cast spell.it is very prominent in Africa. A reasonable African child will not dare play with his wears. So lending wears is as dangerous as swimming in the sea. Every one is a suspect. Those are the things I cannot dare borrow or lend to a friend.
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