Trust me getting a good friend is not as easy as purchasing bread at the store. You will have to ensure you got something in you that such person will need. In this article , I will point out some facts about friendship and how to get a good friend.
Who is a friend?
A friend is someone you can share your heart secrets to. Trust is highly dependent on both parties to live everyday. A friend can be of same sex or opposite sex. Some people even suggest it’s good to make relationship that can lead to marriage with your best friend.
The following are qualities you must posses in order to have a good friend
Be social
Been social doesn’t mean you should be close to every dick and harry but it makes room for you to find a friend that has same passion as you . then you can develop on it. I use to have a friend who always preferred to stay indoors from age 1- 29. She doesn’t have a friend before I met her. I had sometime to speak with her of the negative influence and I believed with time she will change for good.
Be productive
What joins people together is productivity. You must be good at something so as to enable you have friends who likes what you are good at. They can support you, link you up with others you will definitely need. Do not sit idle without doing something.
Don’t be fast in been social with everyone
I know this point contrast the previous but the fact is there are some people you may regard as your friends but will never find a means of your progress. All they want is something gainable from you and a means to ruin you. Please from these set of people pull out from them.
A good friend should know what you want to become in future and you stir each others mindset towards achieving the goal.
Seek guidiance from the creator of the universe
I believe in the creator of the universe, every day I wake up I ask him to guide my day and when I do so, I realized it’s always good for me. Some doesn’t believe in him but just give a try, if it doesn’t work for you, then you can change.
If you have good friends, they will help you realize your goals and focus in life. Do not associate yourself with people who won’t add value to your life. Thanks do have an awesome weekend.
Here is one of my friend we share same passion. I knew her since from college. She is by name Mary.