I have been to so many places and see people manage their relationship. What do I mean by manage? You just don’t like it because it seems not to work out for you as it is but it’s because of some benefits you or the partner gets like money or good sex that still makes the relationship maintained.
Now am sorry for using those terms but it’s a real thing we face as woman. I faced it too and I feel like to share it amongst those who has done same or those who even hasn’t experienced such.
In my last post, I talked about reading and narrating how to control your temper.
It is also essential to manage your relationship with temper control as well.
The real deal
Now you’ve find a choice partner in life, the person you will like to spend your entire life with. I want you to know that both you and the person aren’t perfect until you understand each other. Be it a friend or a partner. There is no perfect person on earth.
As times goes on, the person, either of both partners might seem to be so nice even for a year staying with together and you never discovered the person could even be harsh on you.
Along the way in every relationship, there is bound to be a disagreement.
Let me share with you a story, well I call it a story because it sounds funny.
The story
I lived with my aunt who just got newly wedded some years ago, and both of them likes each other as if they were meant to be one forever. I only saved one picture when I was with them which is this.
But it didn’t all go that way. They loved each other in fact they could even pierce the skin of each other to make a blood oath or love covenant. Not that I saw them do it but the extreme of the love was so mad that I got jealous to find my own partner.
What happened along the way
Could you belive that the summary of the two love birds up till now is that they have parted their ways. What really happened, At some point in time the man discovered that the way the woman uses the tooth paste in the house was just so abnormal. Even me I noticed it. She presses to tooth paste from the middle instead of the bottom and the husband wasn’t pleased at it because he wasn’t used to such.
This continued and one day when the man wasn’t in his normal happy days, he got annoyed at the sight of the occurence,they picked up a quarrel and now because of tooth paste, they are separated, I mean they filled a divorce and it was approved. They both have gone separate ways for more than two years now because of toothpaste.
In conclusion
It sounded foolish to carryout such as by both partners, the reason was due to the fact that they never learnt how to manage their relationship. How could tooth paste bring divorce? There is something I must relate to ladies too, please try to be submissive to your husband.
It cost you nothing, I have encountered men both good and bad. I found out that the good ones just need your loyalty and respect. Argument is never an option, been angry is never an option but forgiveness and gifts are the best ways to keep maintaining your relationship. But please don’t take away the God factor.
When God is involved, if you give your marriage to him, people will be running to you for marriage counsel. Because both partners are mature. Relationship has 30% to do with the physical and 70% to do with the spiritual.
I appreciate your time for reading my post, thanks so much.
