Defo the former.

Here's the thing. When I put her in her cot I didn't actually leave I just sat in bed and watched her.

When she gets past a certain point everything would set her off. Like if she tries to climb on the bed and she falls on her bum she'll start screaming. Me telling her No quietly, firmly and loudly and she'll start screaming.

She's very sensitive especially to sound and tone.

I certainly get the undesirable brain rewiring vibe.

When I'm just done DONE, I do walk away or if Hubby's home I tell him it's his turn lol

We had another round of screaming this arvo.

I cant help but think maybe she's like this now because we didnt train her to sleep in her bed earlier?

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