It is not an easy thing to go through. I had to watch my wife go through her second round of cancer treatment and chemo. Then she had to watch me go through my lung cancer treatment. I was fortunate I think in that I did not need chemo treatment. But I do understand it somewhat from both sides. Patience and understanding is what was needed in both cases in order for me to keep my sanity.

I hope all goes well for you, there is life after chemo and after cancer and after surgery.