I think that each of us is familiar with such a phrase or definition as “the best place.”
In theory this is what should make us happy if we can take this better place.
Theatergoers know how difficult it is to buy a theater ticket for the “best seats” but if you managed to do it and paid everything that is expected from above for such tickets this does not guarantee you that you will get more pleasure and impressions than those who couldn't buy a theater ticket at all.
Yes you wait with bated breath for little swans to appear on the stage of the theater Tchaikovsky warned you about this, you waited and it turns out that some teacher brought her class to the theater and the children began to shine laser pointers under the ballerinas’ skirts and laugh like a herd of horses.
The performance turns into a farce.
Or having taken the best place you will see a huge moose in front of you which will cover your entire view with its back or hair.
On a bus a seat by the window does not guarantee that you will not have an insane companion in the next seat and in a train compartment next to you there will be a drunk company that will negate everything that characterizes the place as “the best.”
You can walk for a long time on a frozen lake in search of a better place but this does not guarantee that the ice will not break under you and the ice floe will not carry you down the river.
It turns out that searching for a better place does not create anything you need to be able to make the “best” place where you are now.