We have to believe that we are sinners in need of a savior. We need to consciously accept what Jesus did on the cross as payment for our sins. We need to accept Jesus as Lord. It's not enough to know that Jesus died for those who would believe in him. Salvation is a gift--we don't have it if we don't accept it. Then we need to repent of our sins and do our best to live a holy life. If you've accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior you'll have the Holy Spirit to convict you of the sins in your life.

Once you're saved you need to find a Bible based church and attend regularly. You need to read your Bible regularly. Pray regularly. You can use the ACTS model of adoration, confession, thanksgiving, and supplication. I listen to Christian podcasts like "Thru the Bible" and "Running To Win." I also listen to scripture based Christian music. I find that it feeds me spiritually.