Okhay!

it sounds like a mass justification for the life you have and not an honest assessment.

Fair enough that it should appear so from your perspective. AFAIC I gave my opinion on a question you raised.

When someone is in a fishbowl and they're not aware they're in a fishbowl what do you do?

If that has reference to me, I'd be happy to hear your description of the fishbowl you see me in...if you're up for describing your view of it, that is! I'll accept it as your opinion: will consider it and won't contest it. May comment on it though :)