Love leads, but we shouldn't let it blind us. Just like you stated;

Love is not enough if there is not kindness and respect.

For a plant to grow, it doesn't just need your love. It needs to be watered and cared for. I know it is not easy, but if one is in a place where they are not valued, it is better to just leave.

I am glad you left, and I do love that you put yourself first. Well done.