You know your last statement reminded me about something I saw at the recent DNC convention in Chicago! But never mind that :)

The question is not who is bigger or smaller.

The question is since both are at the same place how can we improve the relationship and interaction.

I do agree with your comment on receiving curation at hive, I think the blame can be directed both ways. However, we are not planning to playing the blame game.

Please let me know how I personally can help folks like you.