I am sorry that I am reading this late. This is such a moving life! I won’t call it a story as it is real life.
I can’t give you any lessons as you know it all. I can’t give only share what I learned from my daughters. Yes, most of my parenting I learned from them and I widely admit it! They know it too.
I asked my older Lia, that I am a learner. So if I have done something wrong in parenting please let me know immediately and I will try and fix it. She is an wonderful kids ready for high school now and she does give me regular lessons :)
RE: I could do better. How trauma affects my parenting.