Alot of accusations here and there,I won't just be sharing mine but also my siblings own too.
You know this things happen alot in the family but funny enough I don't really have much of accusations from my parent but I have accused my siblings very well, sometimes i later realized it was not them.
The main reason why my parent don't often accuse me of anything back then is because I was a good girl from when I was young,I don't over do things or do things they asked me not to do. Especially the females in my house but you see the males,they are the most stubborn people in the family,they will always cross their boundaries and even deny doing things even when they did it.
I can remember two now,and that's the only two I can remember , when I just finished my ss3,I never wanted to have a boyfriend then but I met this particular guy and we became friends,he made his intentions known to me,we later started dating,he was the most cool headed guy I have ever met and very responsible.
So this particular day he came home during vacation because he was schooling in OAU(obafemi awolowo university) so he said he wanted to see me after some months,he actually did,we met and his perfume was marrddd,he hugged me and that was how my body caught the perfume,my clothes were scenting and when I got home,I rushed inside my room but my mum came out and was like who owns this perfume that is smelling,and mind you we don't use perfume then,I removed my clothes yet my body was still smelling,she said who did I meet,I said nobody,I denied it ,she just let it pass because I know she knew I hugged somebody that's why my body was smelling the person's perfume.
She didn't want to attract the attention of my dad because if it was my dad that knew I'm already a dead meat then.
Another one is when I didn't take my dad's money and he said I did,so he gave me his trouser to wash,I actually washed some of his clothes that day,and I didn't even check his pockets so when his clothes got dried he checked the pockets of his trouser and didn't see his money,he said I took it and I denied it because I did not,I said he was sure because he kept the money in his pocket,my mum was trying to tell him that I can't take his money and I'm not like that but he wouldn't listen,he was checking through his books when he saw the one thousand naira he was looking for,he probably kept it there without remembering that he did when he was reading,my dad always read different spiritual books and inspirational books,so he might have kept it there,my mum was now like "can you imagine now I told you she has never stolen before and you know it" but sincerely that day my dad did not believe that I did not take the money even when he saw it inside his book but he didn't say anything afterwards.
After that I learned that no matter what I will never take his money,I will continue to be the good girl I have always been,I don't want to disappoint anyone.
Another one is when I accused my younger brother of taking my money,he was like what's this now,I did not take your money don't disturb me,I kept taunting him that he took it,I later found the money somewhere else,I was now feeling bad that accused him wrongly,I was sad,I shouldn't have,I apologized to him and he started doing shakara but that was how we resolved it.
And I decided to stop accusing him if I didn't see him doing that thing,it's better to just ask rather than accusing someone.
Alot more happened but this is where I'm going to drop my pen.
Thanks for reading 馃崊
