Getting affiliated through emotions does require etiquettes and manners where you have to take and give back respect. People think that we become single souls when we fall in love. But even soulmates have a distinct identity and they need to have a safe space in everything. Here what I mean is the privacy which is implemented in everything no matter in phones , finances etc. I believe one must skim over these minor details if he/she wants to carry one healthy relationship. No one likes others to peep at everything. Even in my personal life we both have our own privacy and we don't negotiate with each other about calls or texts either. We both have our own life outside the room and we deal with them in our own way. So if you will go deep into the activities of your partner you will find nothing except the breakage which will depart you in a short duration.
It's not about the respect of families only it involves giving respect to the profession and work of others too. I met people who think that their partner does nothing at home . So do you consider that home chores or taking care of family is not a work ? Or if someone does online work and partner calls him sluggish or computer guy. These things weaken relationships. Remember we all start from zero level and mutual cooperation assists us to earn bigger success in life. So instead of digging holes ,let's come forward to mend them cleanly.
Multiple people will recommend you to remain silent on many things but remember when it comes to desire never ever do this. You need to give proper time when you have to express your interests. Before marriage I read in an islamic journal that never ever hesitate to open up about your desires. I found this as worthy as a diamond. If you see any misunderstanding don't let it become a mistake. Mutual discussion will boost you both to clean the residues of that confusion. Now about the silence where it must be used ? I suppose the place where one is not in the right mental state , the place where you both are having tough times , where your enemies are exploiting you. So learn to crack the silence of your partner but don't let yourself feel ashamed of uttering extras about your life partner.
It's not a mere statement or any physical terminology to build a relationship you must remain United in all the matters. Difference in opinion may transpire, you may have inside the room contradictions but in front of the world what you utter or express is the reality and strength of your relationship. I have firm belief in the term Husband and wife are valuable to each other. If you try to expose others, you will certainly also be naked. Never ever indulge the third party in your relationship even if the mutual friends don't remain the same in times of crisis. I saw wives who are using slang language for their husbands and husbands blaming their wives for extra marital affairs. But at the end they are on the same bed. But their reputation in front of society remains zero and nobody else would be blamed for this except them.
We learn things day by day and these are simple observations and experiences I have had , you can share your opinion too. Might be I would be adding more perspective later but till then just remember you are blessed to have your partner because it's chosen by the Lord. The individual who entered your life has a purpose and you both have to work in harmony. You are wise enough to remember that nobody is perfect. So we need to work on ourselves.
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