The practice of sexuality is as old as man; it was believed that sex was instinctive, a simple reaction in order to procreate and continue with the species. However, throughout history it has been shown that human sexuality is very complex as biological, psychological and social factors intervene, and especially that its purpose is not only to procreate but to enjoy during the sexual act. Most research have focused on female pleasure leaving aside the male orgasm and, what is worse; many women focus on their own satisfaction without showing interest in the pleasure of their partner, in such a way that man comes to perceive an existential emptiness during and after sex.
Many people confuse the orgasm with the ejaculation, and it is not like that, they are two different processes, that for a long time have been unified. During the sexual cycle there are four phases: excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution. The four phases are important; however, during the second phase there must be greater recognition as men experience spasms of pleasure and several contractions difficult to control, they are reflexes that are controlled by masturbation and imagination. Men perceive when they are going to ejaculate, as they feel strong and intense contractions while the semen goes through the seminal duct for the expulsion. In this stage men use different deconcentration strategies to last longer and prolong the release of semen. Therefore, you can feel orgasms without ejaculating or ejaculating without feeling pleasure.
During sex, men increase their level of warmth to see their partner feel pleasure and enjoy the petting, since they feel they are the best lovers, we must bear in mind that sexual relations are enjoyed more being with the loved one due to the level of trust and mutual feelings, reaching a greater intimacy to generate great pleasure. Man is not a simple machine that is always ready to have sex, just like women require petting, pampering and time of concentration.