Good day everyone, i guess your day is going well. Actually i went on outing for the first time for the past last two weeks have gotten to ibadan.
Actually before i got to ibadan from school, i have been promised by a friend of mine which is a lady to take me out or to hang out together and my mind have been on the promise she made before i got to ibadan, so immediately i entered ibadan i started calling her, shes as been replying me actually but immediately i told her i will be coming to her house, i noticed her mood changed towards me, after that time she will not want to pick my calls, she will hardly reply my chats, for over a week have been sitting down at home cos she promised to take me out in which i have alot of places to visit.
So within that week, she now come out to me that she dont used to invite male friends to there house and she was the one that told me to come to there house in the first place when i got to ibadan, so i told her its okay, i suggest she should come to my house but she refused to come. So as i noticed how shes behaving, i did not talk about seeing her again. So fortunately for me, i have a female friend here that is observing her siwes program in ibadan, so when i call her to greet her and informed her have gotten to ibadan, that was how she invited me for a wedding party and she says we have to go together, i was even trying to turn her down in the first place, but she insit that i have to go with her.
When the wedding day comes, she called me that we should meet at iwo road, if you are familair with ibadan, there is no way you will not know iwo road. So when we got to iwo road, we started caling each other, we are both at iwo road at that time and we couldn't locate each other, i started touring around iwo road that yesterday before i could locate her. Eventually went to board cab to oluwo, the place is damn far and it is still within ibadan o. Actually when we got to oluwo, we alited from the car and we board another bike to the wedding venue. We sha get there, we enjoyed ourselves till something after 5pm.
JEALOUSY
So during those time we were enjoying ourselves at the party, the first lady that supposed to took me out was now started calling me but i couldn't pick the call cos she wont hear what I'm saying if i do. So i went ahead to check my WhatsApp and i saw her messages that what I'm i doing that kept me busy that i did not call her since morning or chat her up at all for the day, i read the chat but i did not reply. So after like two hours, i now went outside the hall to go and place a call across to her, as she picked the call, she started questioning me, so i told her gently i went on outing, the next thing she will ask was you and who, i told her with a friend, she then asked a male friend or with a female friend, i told her with a female friend. Thats how she starts the problem, she says that my friend that i went out with want them to think we are couples, she sha started saying alot of things, she said i hope they did not press your body too much like this, i told her i did not understand that one.
Actually i delibrately made her felt jealous because she did not want us to see. Actually she told me after the party that me and that my friend may eventually end up in a place at night and do something right? I told her its possible. She felt really pained that yesterday but is that really my fault? I want you all to tell me if its really my fault or not. If she did not give attitude, i wouldn't have gone on outing with another lady.
CLARIFICATION
Is it my fault that she became jealous or uncomfortable?
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