Many times we wonder what love is, for some people love is something we feel, a feeling that takes over our body, our being and our heart, sometimes it distracts us a lot, we get frustrated because nothing turns out as we expect, we think a lot about what to do, whether to finish, continue, take some time, that is where acceptance is born, we accept everything from bad habits to bad treatment just to be with that person, just because it makes us feel moments of happiness, just because it makes us feel moments of happiness many times we become blind for being in love we do not realize the real things for that expectation that we have of reality thinking about the other person, it hurts us their bad actions and that happens because sometimes we do not fall in love with the person if not an expectation of what they are or what will be the relationship.
Sometimes we do not know the treasure of the person we have until we lose them and vice versa, the other person believes to be a wonder and has a security that we will always be there and it is not so, there will come a time when we get tired of everything because humans are like that, humans fail, you can not put your happiness in a human, nor the total of your trust because sooner or later you will end up being disappointed, better put it in God who is perfect and his love will always be for you.
There are people who think that to love is a nice feeling, but it is not like that, to love is not a feeling, because feelings come and go, imagine that a person loves you today and tomorrow not, imagine that your mom loves you today and tomorrow, that your boyfriend or girlfriend loves you today and tomorrow not. So for me loving is not a feeling, it is a decision, because you cannot stop loving a thing or a person from one day to the next. For example, I love music and I always will, we always love people until one day we say "I don't love you anymore".
That is where my way of thinking comes in, you will always love that person because you decided to or you will stop loving that person because you decided to, in the case of feelings it is the same, first you feel many things for that person and you say with all your being "I love you" because you feel it, but when you do not feel it, you will not say it.
EL MAYOR ACTO DE AMOR LO MOSTRO CRISTO EN LA CRUZ EL NOS AMO Y NOS AMA A PESAR DE TODAS LAS COSAS Y ESE ES EL AMOR QUE QUIERO NO QUE SINTAMOS POR OTROS O TAL VEZ SI PORQUE SOMOS HUMANOS Y TENEMOS SENTIMIENTOS , SI NO QUE TENGAMOS ESE AMOR POR LO DEMÁS , POR TU FAMILIA POR TUS AMIGOS , ESE AMOR POR DIOS Y ESE AMOR POR TU PAREJA.
THE GREATEST ACT OF LOVE WAS SHOWN BY CHRIST ON THE CROSS HE LOVED US AND LOVES US IN SPITE OF ALL THINGS AND THAT IS THE LOVE THAT I WANT US TO FEEL NOT FOR OTHERS OR MAYBE YES BECAUSE WE ARE HUMAN AND WE HAVE FEELINGS, BUT TO HAVE THAT LOVE FOR OTHERS, FOR YOUR FAMILY, FOR YOUR FRIENDS, THAT LOVE FOR GOD AND THAT LOVE FOR YOUR PARTNER.
Love is long-suffering, love is kind; love does not envy, love is not boastful, love is not puffed up; it does nothing wrong, it does not seek its own, it is not provoked, it does not bear grudges; it does not rejoice in injustice, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ceases; but prophecies will cease, and tongues will cease, and knowledge will cease. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
Let all your things be done in love. 1 Corinthians 16:14
Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. John 15:13
I hope you enjoyed this reflective essay about love, for many it was recently the day of love or in any case we are in that month, I hope you have a great time with your loved one. Follow my next publications, thank you.