A matter of personality (WEEK 237)

Being authentic and transparent is the only way to attract equals.

We are energy and there is no doubt about that, so depending on how that energy vibrates by similarity we will attract another vibration similar to ours. This is true for all aspects of life, I have proven it many times. When I feel rejection towards something or someone, I don't know why it is, but I am sure that there is something that tells me to stay away.

So when we meet people, there will be people who are similar to us and others who are not. The ones that last the longest and where the bond is strongest or intensifies are the ones who are similar, even though outwardly it may not seem that way.

If I meet a new person, he or she may or may not be in tune with me; that is a matter of time.

That new person I meet will like my personality if our energies are similar in some way or if, for example, they see something they would like to have or improve that they don't have at the moment or are in the process of improving.

Taking into account that condition I think that my personality would like and there could be great and quality conversations on various topics and as I say grow that mutual knowledge over time.

Why that person likes my personality I think it has to do with how I see myself and to say that why I should describe myself. I think it is a conjunction of characteristics.

I am sure of myself, I know who I am and I love myself, I like to improve every day, and I don't only mean to improve in the world, but internally, I believe that the evolution of the soul is fundamental and for that it is the self-knowledge.

Another characteristic is that I trust myself, that trust is given to me by my other self that is... out there. Being responsible, constant, self-demanding, cheerful, understanding without judgement and valuing and emphasising the positive things in life and in people is something that I have learned over time and that can be liked about my personality.

Several people have mentioned to me that I have an aura of mystery and that I like that. Well, it must be that too. I see beyond the eyes and I think that instead of being scary, that attracts.

But what I have noticed over the last 20 years is that my personality arouses confidence, people come up to me to tell me things without my having said or asked anything. They know that what they say dies with me.

A lot of people need to talk and be heard, I think we all do, and people just come up and tell me. I don't know what that awakens in people, it seems like an invisible energy, but it happens to me all the time with new people. And if I can guide them in something, I do it. I can't help anyone, I can guide with my personal experience.

The summary would be to know how to listen, to awaken trust and not to judge, everyone is the way they are, because of multiple factors.

Would it change anything about my personality? Of course not, if I did, I would no longer be who I am and I would be someone else. I love myself and therefore I am happy as I am, despite the flaws I have, because we all have them.

I wouldn't change aspects of my personality, but it is true that I like to learn and that can modify it somewhat, but I wouldn't do it with the aim of pleasing someone else.

We are all different and it is in that difference where the beauty of the universe lies, something similar has been said to me these days with which I agree and that is why I chose this weekend topic, one of the many interesting ones that @galenkp presents to us every time. Thank you very much for that.