Whining is the new profanity... you know who whines? People who don’t believe they can fix whatever is wrong with their lives... Now, of course, we can’t fix other people, but we can many times avoid letting them effect/destroy us. Whining about how other people have done this or that to you actually gives them power over you. The minute they disturb your peace of mind they have won a small war against you.
Is that to say you will never have to think of someone you don’t like? No of course not, but if you keep your thoughts and your words to yourself then others will remember you as a person of great emotional poise. Only fools let their emotions run away from them for any length of time... have I been a fool? Yes, but I also understand my folly, which I can assume is half of the battle.
Emotions are always there to guide you, not distract or destroy you. You just have to learn to use them as such. Women are good at this, they use tears as weapons in certain instances, (not that this is really a positive usage) but they understand that emotions can be utilized to certain ends.
Other people should also realize that emotions can make you money, in the form of transmutational art and creativity. These things can be used to help build up your life and serve as an example for those around you who want to know how to utilize their own (sometimes darker) emotions. In essence, the whining about anything you feel like the vibe is a self-destructive one. Because everyone in life reflects something about you, so in essence, you are just whining about yourself and your own Issues, even when you are talking about someone else
