MASTURBATION AND IT'S EFFECTS
VIRGINS AND MASTURBATION
A lot of question on masturbation has being asked most especially from Ladies - yes, Ladies! Masturbate a lot, especially virgins. Guys also masturbate. There is no debate on that. I'm not here to argue about who masturbate most, We need to deal with serious issue here.
Sexual urge for virgins is strong is the novelty, newness, the mystery and what they hear people say about sex.
Masturbation is fondling your genitals constantly to achieve orgasm. Ladies may stroke their clitoris while guys rub, massage or caress their penis. We decided to give explicit explanation because some ask what masturbation is.
Some ladies especially non-virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, sticks, dildos, or whatever represents a penis and do solo sex (having sex by yourself)
From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for sex. It's a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex marriage. In your 20'sit be stronger and intense! You may wake up feeling horny for no single reason in the world or go hot on spotting a curvy Lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off. You may get worked up on watching a romantic movies and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven't committed any sin.
So what then do you do when you get hot and horny? Have Sex? I know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They masturbate!
They give themselves release and pleasure through solo time. Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out.
Now let me explain
1.masturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an Ex, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having sex with them while masturbating.
That is MENTAL FORNICATION
For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had sex with man except objects during your solo sex.
You kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of women don't enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won't be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won't have feelings for your husband's penis.
You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, and completely unrealistic!
Women who complain their husband penis are too Small didn't marry as virgins. They must have being promiscuous as singles.
You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will experience pre-mature ejaculation and your wife won't enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. You need self control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys sex when the man can go in for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become frigid, and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or even both of you having an affair. Self control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for long time and have an excellent orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too. That is why total virginity pays!
If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have serious problem with delayed/retarded ejaculation. A situation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm? What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate, How will the woman get pregnant?
It's the reason some women are seemingly "barren" and can't talk to anybody out of embarrassment.
Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating sex altogether. You have so much to lose when you masturbate.
Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and enjoy the pleasure that comes with sex IN MARRIAGE!
You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless, and powerless after such act.
You start getting unsatisfied and wants the real thing. You fantasize more about sex and start longing for real act
You get warped view of the opposite sex. You begin to see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirts or trousers -you become promiscuous
You get damaged, hurt and broken.
These and more are the consequences of masturbation. They damage you and shatter you in pieces!
What then should you do your sexual urge? How do you handle the constant hunger for Sex?
Here is the solutions
Avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos, pictures and hot, romantic movies, They are powerfully sexual triggers.
Avoid friends who say dirty, lewd, and obscene things. Stop all sexy banters with friends and only things that are pure, holy, needful, and helpful.
Get busy with your life, education and carrier, there is more to life than SEX.
Study the word of God a lot especially psalm 119. When you are filled with the word, you have no space for the devil and his demons in your heart.
Pray to God always for help
Make friends with Godly people
Avoid pornography and romantic movies
Get busy in Kingdom service
Masturbation is BAD, WRONG, DEMONIC, DESTRUCTIVE and SINFUL. avoid it and end it with speed if you are one. You can share it now, you might save a soul and a happy family unknowingly.