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Hello friends, a verse for friends i always heard is "A friend in need is a friend indeed". These words simplifies the very aspect of having friends. Those who help their friends in their difficult times is the one who can be called as a friend. The others can be quoted as the passer-by. Everyone deserves a friend, the experiences we get with a friend and the valueable lessons taught by the evil ones all makes it important to have a friend. There is a good friend and there is a bad friend, but most importantly there is a best friend. We can openup to our best friend in a way like no other. One can't openup to a relative. But one can trust a friend and openup and talk about their problems and happiest moments and sad moments. They won't judge you, they even gives you advise on how to escape from it. Some people come into your life in the disguise of a friend only to teach you a memorable life lesson on whom to trust. Nowadays many people are asking money from their friends who just known them and some long lost friends due to the economic collapse and some debts. Some will repay that amount and some make excuses to pay it after and some make excuses not to pay.
I think there is no definite way to make friends, its like instinct of humans to get along with some persons and make them as their friends. I theorize that the brain wave patterns interlink with those whose waves are matched. Maybe this is the reason some people might get along as friends and some might not. When you lost something or someone friend is the one who is with you to cope for the thing you lost. Some will be there along the way to make your like difficult, but some will shed light in your life. The memories you gain from a good friend will be long lasting. With time being the index, in your teenage phase you may have lot of friends and you will be on contact with all of them. After you enter the young age your friends circle may seem to be decrease by certain amount. When you become an elder and begin your family and start earning for the family, your friends circle will decrease to a point of lessthan five. The ones who has been friends for like more than 10 years are the friends for life. They are our best friends for whom we should turn for any type of sharing may be its happy moments or sad or enjoy or a problem. They will definitely provide an answer to it or else they will be there for your support.
I think there will always be four types of personas in every person. One, the one how you behave infront of your family members, second is how you behave infront of your spouse, third how you behave with your friends and the last one is you know exactly what kind of a person you are and there is no deny to it. The above three types of personal recognition is different with each other. You would be more free with a friend, even your wife will also not come close knowing who you really are except for a friend. This may be because how open-minded we are with our friends than our family members or relatives. When your best friends call after a long gap due to some unknown busy schedules, the way you share both your entire life moments in that gap tells you a lot. The persons who take advantage of others may get profit for some time, but they will eventually fall down due to their wrong doings. Friends will keep eachother safe and share their life moments. A friends is one must and should have in your life. The charades we do as friends will give long lasting memories that never fade away.
In over all, a friend can make your life good even when you are down. The thought of someone supporting us even in our bad situations may give us the boost to stand up by ourselves and i call that boost is a FRIEND.
