Some people have faced some incident in their life since childhood and do not know why but they don't talk too much and are shy about what to say. I'm the same, I'm very shy to talk to people I know very well and even more so when I talk to new people. There may be many people like me. That doesn't mean I have less confidence, if I want to say something I say it, I don't hesitate, I don't think what I have to say is wrong or right, I say what I want to say. If it turns out that what I said is wrong, I will admit it. I will not show ego.
I am more of a thinker because I didn't talk much since childhood. I read somewhere that before you know others, know yourself. That's why I used to think about what I can do and how I can do it. I have always heard someone say and learned that we have to come to a decision for ourselves. We should always take what the other side says as a reference, but we should come to our decision based on the events that happened. We should turn our experiences into lessons and form our way of life based on them. By knowing ourselves, we gain confidence in ourselves. Remember one thing only knowing about something gives us confidence, be it to say or do.
There are few people in our life who talk things that lower our confidence and their actions are also like that. Be careful with such people. Identify such people and do not listen to their words no matter what they say. Why I am saying this is because I have faced such people in my life. Their ego does not let them see their actions, that's why. They behave like that. There is no benefit in talking to such people and demeaning ourselves.
There is nothing wrong in always saying what we know. Whether it is good or bad, we should say what we think. But our words should never hurt or offend someone. When the people around us believe in our words, it is when we speak knowingly about what we are saying. That's why we should always speak if we know something, and if we don't know, we should listen. If we speak without knowing, our words have no value. That's why there is a saying that elders say, "If your foot slips, you can take it back, but if your mouth slips, you can't pick it up."
In some people, there are those who are shy to say even if they know everything. The only thing I want to say to such people is that you can speak in front of someone only if you believe in yourself. Whenever you believe what you can say, then others will also believe in it. It will always be in the principles that we believe in, if we think we can't do it, if we think we can do it. can do
If you found any inconsistency in my grammer or sentence formation, it's because first i wrote my thoughts in my native language in google translate and then convert it into english. Thanks for understanding.
