Last year, before my wedding comes up, I was kind of scared of getting married because of the rate at which people divorces in a marriage, on a daily basis. So I said to myself let me begin to study people who are experiencing strong marriage, from what I observe I can say that having just money and love, is not enough to secure a successful marriage. The success of marriage is determined by the combination of these factors Love, communication, and money.
Nevertheless, Love is the most important thing in marriage. Love in a marriage, is more than a just an emotion, but it's an attitude, a decision or behavior. A marriage can only survive when both partner decided to be committed to practice love and self sacrifice towards giving love to each other in the marriage.
In marriage, couple who displayed these following factor in their marriage such as loyalty, commitment, passion, forgiveness, support, respect and trust within themselves, is as a result of love. True love in a marriage helps to promote happiness, doesn't bring about stress, and depression. A marriage which love settle in always promote physically, emotionally, spiritually and mental growth. Only a loveless relationship are full of pain, domestic violence and some other thing that are unhealthy for health.
However, Love shouldn't be the only things to be considered in a marriage. Another things that helps marriage to work and be a successful one is communication. Communication also play an important role in a marriage. Communication has to begin in the early stage of a relationship and it must be constructive. Isn't hello and Hi kind of communication. You have to be able to communicate your thoughts, feeling and needs with your partner.
Communication is not only about speaking with each other. To have a good communication in a relationship, it's always advisable to be more of listen than talking, always give attention to your partner whenever he/she talking and also don't just to listen, listen to understand.
No matter how much you love your partner, lack of communication can makes a relationship to collapse and brings about different situations such as conflict, anxiety, depression, insecurity and divorces.
Another thing that is important in a marriage is money. Although people do believed that money is not everything. but as for me no relationship can survived without it. Financial stability helps marriage to last longer, comfort and peaceful. Money is needed in marriage to carry out some financial responsibility and some basic needs in life. A relationship without financial stability, where the couple always go through hunger, debt, worry and depression. Such relationship can leads to divorce or different challenges.
In conclusion, marriages can't survive without the combination of money, love and communication.
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