Wow,this is a very powerful question.

Well marriage is not a game,it's a lifetime commitment. It was created by God and it's the first kingdom institute on earth.

Marriage is about meeting each other needs.

Also, marriage is a choice and it's not necessary or compulsory for you to live a happy or fulfilled life.

Nobody is perfect and everyone has their own flaws and weakness..

Laziness is not a good thing and so is dirtiness,it not a nice thing..

The Truth is love is unpredictable and can make someone do something you never imagined,yes I don't like or encourage laziness or being dirty but if I love someone very much I can marry her even though she is lazy and dirty, firstly I will have to help her out by training her in these her weakness, change they say is constant.

I believe I can encourage her to be hardworking and also teach her her to be a clean woman because I love her and am ready to go the extra mile for her.

People even marry someone with even worse cases like these ones and help their spouse to be better.