Hi, I am Arveno from Surabaya city. In this content i want to share about how i spend a night having quality time with my son. In this moment i infiltrate his mindset and his bad behaviour and talked to him to get rid this bad behaviour.
Today i got report from his homeroom teacher that my son having some bad behaviour. So, instead mad at him and he still doing bad behaviour its better if i using different approach. This time i invites him to assembling this mini bricks together.
This toy kinda same with yesterday content. This toy kinda small but not too complicated. It is so simple to make and easy to make thats why i invites my son. Yep, this is one of my way to distracting him looking smartphone.
Same as yesterday all bricks wrapped in plastic.
And i got this cup too and this cup inscribed with number 1 and month January. That nice now i already have 2 that is January and August.
See, the guide is just 1 slice of paper.And its only 13 steps and really easy. The parts is just few compared with tiny fox. So, i need to make my son busy to assembling this instead playing Roblox on Smartphone. Kinda worried about playing Roblox all day long since i heard some news that many child abuser or child trafficking hunting inside Roblox game too.
At first i try to make it by myself to give example to my son that assembling this can be fun. Especially when i took this picture, he strated to curious what i am doing and why i take picture about this bricks.
In second step, my son started to hanging on my back and seeing what i am doing and starting to asking many question and i just answering that i need to focus and concentration to make him more curious. No need to wait long, my son started to raid the bricks and starting asking to make it together.
After babbling about arranging the cup and starting to bossy me, he finally can following the guide paper.
He is starting to excited making this sunflower bricks. Right now he can do it without my guidance. And even he calling me if he done step after step
See!! Even right now he can narcistic and show off that he can do it without my guidance.
What makes me hard is taking his picture, he is too active. Especially after i talking to him that what his behaviour that need to changes. I think he started to feel uncomfortable when i am starting to ask him how to change his bad behaviour. I dont give order to change his bad behaviour but i just telling what the responsibilities as a result of of his bad behaviour. Since before this his mom already talking to him.
Right now, every step that he done he asked to be photographed. Kinda cocky but at least i know that he has some confident.
Right now the sunflower started to see, Few more steps till the sunflower done assembled.
Nice, right now all the flower are done assembled. Right now what he need to do is to planting this sunflower into the cup.
Viola, he can do it by himself without me helping him. Hmmm.. I have an idea. I think he can be the reason to buy Legos for me. Hopefully my wife did not reading this content until i got Legos and using my son as reason to get it. LOL.
And for his behaviour, hopefully he can understand that he need to change it. I know it is hard but if he really dont want to have responsibility from his bad behaviourm he need to change it properly. As i said, i will not scold him. I think it is better that the universe that giving him lesson than me scolding him. I realized that he has same characteristic with me that never trusted everyone that lecturing. It is better if i got lesson from universe it self even it gives me broken heart and really painfull. At least i telling him how bad the risk to him and what he need to do if something bad happen as a result of the impact of his behaviour.
