Hi, I am Arveno from Surabaya city. in this content i want to share what i want to tell to my son in the future. Especially after he graduating from kindegarten and right now he will continue to entry elementary school.
Things will change and yeah i know he will read this in few years. And i have some words for him.
Hey mate, how are you going lately?
Feels heavy and tired?
Or still adapting with academic that kinda hard and new for you?? Its okay if you are flustered and feels like having heavy burden. It is so normal. But, remember i still proud of you. Maybe sometimes i still cannot controlling my anger or my dissapointed to you. But actually, all the anger and dissapointed is for myself and i cannot hold it and handle it. Thats why sometimes i shout out to you and scolding you. But, despite all of that, i still proud and loves you. If you can remember when you are graduating from kindergarten and you are very proud until you are shy when seeing to us and to shy to get pictured. I know that felt, i was like you back then. I dont want to get pictured. But, this is the truth son unlike my parents, i will tell u in here. I am very proud and i want to all over the world know that you are my best thing that happened to me. And thats why i need that picture to show off to the world. At least i am still deserved called a worthy father.
I know if you are compared to other genius kid in your class, you are nothing to them. But, in terms of making friends and having easy going nature is something that you can be proud of. For some people it is hard to do mate. So, keep going. I need to break the chain from your grandparents that always comparing to other kids. And if you felt that way just ignore it. And if you are reading this and i am still comparing like that you have right to mad at me and scold me. And if i am angry back towards you, you can show this content. I will calm myself and promise wont do it again.
In the end son, it really dont care much with your academic. Your mom is. But for me as long you are happy and not do it under duress, i am still fine. And yeah if i am having money to support you in what you do, i will do it too. But, please if some of your wish i cannot fulfill it, please understand it. I am still building wealth too for you so, in the future at least i can give you some passive income as bullet for you to try many things in your life. Once you succeed, dont forget to building the same way for your future children. But, yeah i am still hoping you can surprass me on everything son. I believe you can do it. And if you want to be like me, just ask me, if you are feeling fit and the universe supporting you, your way will easier. If not, the unverse will having way to dissapoint you forever and ever. In the end, once again congrats you can graduating without having any fight with your friends. thats one of good progress compared to me backthen. We are really proud of you. And have the best luck for you in the future.
