When I look at you
You change.

Could it be that it is 'you' who changes, not her?
...and, could it be that with some, the changes help them growing together as layers are revealed, while with most of us, we are only capable of seeing the outer layer and as it is peeled away, we lose sight of love?

Just thought you might find it interesting to get a glimpse of how your words affect other minds.
:)